Chelsea, I am sorry you felt stressed by the check-in time of 3-7. You did write that you hadn't noticed the time until I wrote to you with a reminder, and you forgot about the time change. And I was fine with you arriving at 9! Most guests find the arrival window workable, wherever they're coming from, and simply ask in advance if it can be altered, earlier or later, which I am virtually always willing to do; other people I presume stay somewhere else. It's always been important to me to greet guests personally in the 18 years I've welcomed guests to my home, and I am sorry my policy did not meet your needs!