I live in a 19th century church. It's 4000sf over two floors. The main level is a loft kitchen/living room/dining room w/stained glass and 19ft ceilings. Downstairs are 2 bedrooms & my art studio. Full bathrooms on both floors.
I don't smoke but you are welcome to smoke outside in the back yard just not indoors. I expect you to treat my things with respect, but you don't have to tiptoe around: you are welcome to enjoy the place, use my kitchen equipment, read my books, use my computer, nap on the couch, relax in the hammock, etc. You can come and go whenever suits your schedule.